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TRUSTED BY 100s OF MUMS NAVIGATING PDA, AUTISTIC & ADHD MELTDOWNS
You don’t have to get pulled into it too.
When your child is in the storm….
A simple, practical tool to help you pause, get your bearings and respond without adding more fuel to the fire — so you can feel more in control when everything is escalating.
♥ Try it risk-free. If it doesn't help, email Laura@sensorymother.com for a full refund ♥
Created by Laura Ellis: award-winning educator, parent coach, & mum to neurodivergent twins.
If you’ve landed here after one those evenings….
The kind where:
• Everything kicked off over toothpaste
• You tried to stay calm — and couldn’t
• You said things you didn’t mean
And now you’re replaying it all in your head, wishing you’d handled it better.
Pause for a second.
You’re not a bad mum.
You’re a mum whose nervous system just got overwhelmed.
And when that happens?
You don’t respond how you want to.
Not because you don’t care —
but because your brain goes offline.
This might feel familiar…
You know you should stay calm.
You know shouting doesn’t help.
You know consequences in the moment make things worse.
But when it’s actually happening?
You can’t access any of that.
Your child is overwhelmed.
You’re overwhelmed.
And everything escalates fast.
So instead of giving you more advice to remember…
Here’s something you can grab.
No overthinking.
No trying to “get it right”.
No pressure to be a better parent.
Just something steady to hold onto in the moment when everything gets loud.
So you don’t get pulled into the storm, and regret how you handled it (again).
Exactly what to say and do - even when your brain goes blank.
This is not a course.
There’s nothing to learn.
Nothing to complete.
Nothing to “keep up with.”
The Meltdown OAR™ is a simple, powerful, one-page response plan designed for one thing:
Helping you stay steady - even when everything around you isn’t.
When everything kicks off, you’ll know:
✔ What to say
✔ What not to say
✔ What to do first
✔ How to calm the situation safely
So instead of getting pulled into the storm and reacting in ways you regret…
you have something to steer you both safely through the storm.
Before you react → reach for your OAR™.
O - ORIGIN
When behaviour becomes overwhelming, it’s easy to focus on what your child is doing.
Origin helps you pause long enough to ask…
“What is my child’s nervous system trying to tell me?”
Instead of reacting to behaviour…
you get clear on the need underneath it.
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A - ANCHOR
When emotions are high, your brain needs something solid to hold onto.
Anchor is your own personal reminder…
the words YOU need most…
to stop your nervous system pulling you into survival mode.
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R - RESPONSE
Response guides you calmly through your next steps….
You’ll no longer be reacting in panic.
Or fear.
But with connection.
You’ll follow a specific action-plan that reduces overwhelm instead of adding fuel to the fire.
See how it’s helping other mums:
What this actually changes
With The Meltdown OAR™ you’ll feel:
♥ More in control of yourself — even if your child isn’t calm yet.
♥ Clear about what to say and do - so you don’t make things worse.
♥ Relief as the meltdowns become shorter & less intense - so they stop dominating your family’s life.
♥ Proud of how you handled it - so that you can stop feeling like you’re a bad mum.
♥ More confident facing the next meltdown - with less dread of what’s coming.
This isn’t about being perfect.
It’s about responding in a way you feel good about - even in hard moments.
You don’t need this someday.
You’ll need this the next time it happens.
And that could be tonight.
What you get:
1) 7-minute walkthrough video
2) Printable Quick Start Guide
3) Your own personalised one-page OAR™ plan
4) Lifetime access
Why this works
The Meltdown OAR™ is built from the first steps of the full regulation framework: The PAUSE Method™
PAUSE™ shows parents how to:
• Recognise escalation earlier
• Notice their own stress signals sooner
• Interrupt reactive patterns
• Respond intentionally instead of automatically
But you don’t need the whole framework right now.
You need something that helps in the moment you’re in.
That’s what this is.
One small purchase.
A response you can feel enormously proud of.
No subscription.
No overwhelm.
Just steady support when you need it most.
£11 • Instant Access • Use It Tonight
A note from me
When things were at their worst in our house, I couldn’t think straight either.
I knew I loved my son.
I knew I didn’t want to shout.
But I didn’t know what to do instead.
I’m Laura — teacher, parent coach, and mum to neurodivergent twins.
This isn’t theory.
This is the one-page plan I scribbled on a scrap of paper so that I could grab it in those moments when my brain went blank and I couldn’t think.
It’s exactly what helped me go from reacting in ways I hated….
To feeling steady in moments that used to overwhelm me.
You don’t need more advice right now.
You need something to hold onto when it’s happening.
(Laura Ellis / SENsory Mother)